adoption

We’re in the middle of a whirlwind of God’s activity!

Brief summary: My sister-in-law just had twin girls a couple days ago, and wants to give them up for adoption. We thought who better to adopt them than The Bohlenders? I called them, Raegan called her sister, her sister called the case worker, the Bohlenders called Raegan’s sister, they called the caseworker, lawyers were involved, and long story short, Randy & Kelsey are on their way down to Florida to get the girls.

It’s not a done deal yet, but we just got off the phone with Raegan’s sister and she said she’s definitely going to give the girls to them. Yay! Latest news as of 8:00 pm EST!

Please keep praying. Adoption trumps abortion any day.

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Things they don’t tell you about fasting…

Fasting is something that should be a part of every Christian’s life. Jesus said the friends of the bridegroom will fast while He is not with us. So it’s a given that it should be done.

With that said, I’m going to focus on the practical aspects of fasting. If you have never done an extended fast (>7 days) before, there are some things you should be aware of. If your stomach is easily turned, go ahead and skip this post. I talk about bodily functions.

  • The first two days are the hardest. When you start, your stomach knows when it should expect food. After missing a few meals, it stops getting hungry at meal times. This usually takes 4 or 5 days. After a week or two, you feel like you can fast forever.
  • You will have a heightened sense of smell starting about the 3rd day. This is not my favorite part of fasting. My toothbrush smells horrible. I can smell my breath in the shower in the mornings. I walked into the candy aisle at Wal-Mart and asked Raegan where the bag of candy had spilled… I could smell the sugar.
  • Your body goes into starvation mode when you miss a day of food. This means it holds on to whatever is in the system, trying to get every last bit of nutrition. The first couple of days I don’t have a bowel movement, but then finally the body is like “ok, get it out”.
  • The body will eventually start using its fat reserves for energy. This occurs after the starvation mode, and happens to me around day 3 or 4. This is great if you want to lose weight, but there are side effects. Have you ever had too much Olestra? That’s fat that is indigestible, and it leaves the body pretty much how it comes in, as oil. Well, when you burn fat you get an oily by-product in your stool. Actually, it is your stool. For the remainder of your fast. Yes, an oily diarrhea will be your companion for the remainder of your fast. I praise God we live in a time of soft toilet paper. I cannot imagine what John the Baptist endured on a lifestyle of prayer and fasting in the wilderness…
  • Your muscles will feel like they’ve been exercising. Kinda achy. Any repetitive movements will begin to hurt. I discovered that I sit at my desk and bob my knees up and down. This causes my bicep femoris to ache. Your muscles and body will be tired. This is the whole point of fasting – to make ourselves weak.
  • You will be tired, so you’ll need to sleep more. Late night activities are rough. Have a good alarm clock. I normally get 6+ hours when I’m not fasting, but during an extended fast I’ll be sleeping 8-9 easy.
  • You need to drink more. More than you think. More than you want. You won’t want to drink. Sometimes I look at the bottle of water and I think there’s no way I can put that to my lips. Do it anyway. Ignore the taste (yes, water tastes horrible after a while). Keep your teeth brushed, it helps. I like distilled water – it seems to have the least after taste.
  • Your body will get rid of impurities. This happens in strange ways. My friend has gotten boils on his skin. I get a coating on my tongue and teeth… it tastes terrible and I have to brush like 6 times a day. Your urine may stink. Your breath will stink (my wife says it’s nothing new for me, YMMV).
  • Whatever is in your heart will come to the surface quickly. If something annoys you normally, it will be pounding away at your skull while fasting. Pray for grace and repentance. Fasting shows us what is in our hearts, so that we can repent and turn that area over to Christ.
  • Your mind may be muddled. Write stuff down. I have a tough time carrying on a conversation. I usually have to pray for specific grace to perform my job effectively (I’m a software developer). God is good, and the times I have fasted I have performed better than normal at work. But in the evenings I sound like Yoda trying to communicate with my wife. The garage to be cleaned is something should do. Sometimes I don’t even get the sentence all the way out. Raegan, do you know where… Hilarity ensues.
  • I strongly suggest doing your chores or whatever in the morning, if possible. You will be at your strongest after you have rested, and it makes a huge difference.

Don’t let any of this scare you. The rewards of fasting are huge. God gives grace to do whatever He calls you to do. Don’t compare yourself with others, just look to Him.

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heard on the prayer room audio stream…

“We don’t pray from earth to heaven, we prophecy from heaven to earth”

wow. we’re seated with Christ in heavenly places, right?

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Ezra Answers TheCall

My son knows how to worship.

Ezra Raises Hands at TheCall

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The Honest Abe Bike Tour

Raegan and I were in DC for TheCall (which was awesome, by the way) and we stayed an extra day to relax after the rigors of travelling 3 hours to an all-day fast with a 13 month-old.

We ended up biking about 4 miles around DC – it was a lot of fun. Here’s our route:
Honest Abe Bike Tour

Before that, on the advice of our friend we visited the Waffle House across the street from Ford’s Theater. We saw the Lincoln Memorial and had lots of fun.

Check out Raegan’s photostream on Flickr.

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Threadless/Ace of Cakes Party

Raegan, Ezra and I headed up to Baltimore on Saturday for the Threadless/Ace of Cakes party. It was loads of fun. Some random passerby snagged this picture of Ezra:
Ezra at Threadless Party

This is the kind of picture I’ve been trying to take for quite a while. Mr snakemanrob, your pictures are very good.

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Memorial Stones

In Joshua 4, God instructs the Israelites to set up 12 stones to remind future generations that God stopped the waters of the Jordan so the Israelites could pass through. The idea is that the kids would be like, “hey Dad… what are these stones for?” The reply would come, “well, thats’ a great story… let me tell you about how we came into the land…”

I’ve been thinking about this concept of memorial stones, how we are to document what God has done in our life so that we can tell our future generations about it. In our current society, there’s not really a good way to set up stones so that our kids will ask about them. It’s rare that we live on the same land for generations, and the entire concept of memorial stones is such that they aren’t easy to just pick up and move. So how do we do this? How do we set up things to remind us all what great things God has done in our lives?

I’ve asked a number of friends this question, and I’ve gotten many good responses. One idea is to keep a family journal of prayer requests, and then you can go through them and put the date when they’ve been answered. This is good, and I think we should all have prayer journals, but I don’t think this will necessarily make the best memorial stone. You have to actually go through and start reading the book. You aren’t just reminded in your daily life.

Another thought is through scrapbooks and photo albums. My friend said that we were a much more visual/literate society now, contrasted with the primarily oral society of Joshua’s time. Taking pictures to document an event where God moved in your life is an excellent idea. We take pictures on birthdays, why not take pictures when God heals the nodule in your lung, or when God provides a mysterious $500 rebate check so you can make the rent? You can write up a little story with each picture to remind yourself of the particulars of the event. I think this is an excellent idea, but it’s really just the prayer journal above with additional features. This means it’s subject to the same problem – it sits on the bookshelf and doesn’t really stick out.

My idea definitely stems from my bent towards technology. I was thinking you could have a website, let’s call it a “blog”, and you can write little essays telling what God did in your life. These posts can have pictures, of course, and are really just an electronic version of the previous two suggestions. However, this has the added advantage of being highly visible and public. I think this meets more of the spirit of the command to erect memorial stones. However, there’s still an issue that you have to actually go to the website to see it. I guess you could follow a random link somewhere, but it’s still missing something.

Maybe there will never be a substitute for erecting massive stones to commemorate what God has done in your life. If that’s the case, go visit your local stone mason and pick out some stones and get to work! Alternatively, start keeping some kind of journal. Whether it’s a scrapbook, a weblog, or a moleskin notebook, just do something. The most important point is that you remember what God has done, and that you tell it to others!

In that vein, I think I will create a category called Memorial Stones. I’m going to keep track of the things God has done in my life, and in my family. I don’t know how often I’ll post in this category; the Israelites didn’t erect stones every day. I don’t have a list of things that I will go post in there now. It will be in the spirit of communion… “as often as you do this, do it in remembrance of me.”

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Prayer: an end in itself


I will say this more bluntly than I say just about anything: Prayer is NOT just a means to an end. It is an end in itself.

Amanda has given me a lot to think about…

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To Equip the Saints

Apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors & teachers. These are collectively called the “5-Fold Ministry.” Laying aside for a moment the controversy relating to the first two gifts listed in Eph 4:11, I believe there is still much misunderstanding relating to these ministries. We think that these are the top gifts, or maybe what church members should aspire to. We look to our pastors as the pinnacle of “church-dom”, thinking that one day if we are spiritual enough then maybe we could become a pastor or a missionary. These are looked on as the head honchos in the church, the ones who should be revered. The church in America believes it is these 5 ministries that comprise the work of the church. I think this is entirely backwards.

In reality, these 5 ministries are really basic offices in the church. They are foundational, if you will. When building a house, the foundation is not the objective, it is merely the starting point. The house is the thing. Yes, the foundation is crucial to the strength of the house. But the foundation without the house is pointless. Eph 4:12 says that Jesus has placed Christians in these roles for the purpose of “equipping the saints for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.” What is the ministry of the church? Is it to be a pastor, or to be an evangelist? Is it to be a missionary? Is it to aspire to be a Sunday School teacher? These are all excellent vocations, and they are foundational to building the house. I do not seek to undervalue these offices. However, I believe the work of ministry goes far beyond these five offices.

The church is called to be in unity, with full knowledge of the Son of God. The church is called to the exact level of maturity exhibited by Christ. That’s quite a tall order. Can we collectively walk as mature as Christ? Can we have the faith to move mountains? Can we have the faith to heal amputees? Eph 4:15 says we should grow up in all things into Christ. In all areas of our life, we are called to walk as Christ walked, speaking the truth in love. The only way we can do this is if we are equipped. The only way we can do this is if we are trained. We need our 5-Fold Ministers to equip us. We need these offices to give us weapons to fight. We need these offices to give us the tools to do our job. That is what equipping means in Eph 4:12.

No one looks at a house and says, “Nice foundation,” because the foundation cannot be seen! No one should look at the church and say, “Nice evangelist,” because the evangelist is foundational. The pastor is foundational. The apostle is foundational. These ministers’ sole purpose is to equip the saints for the work of ministry! The saints are the house. People should see the work that the saints are doing, and glorify God.

How strange it is, that we have turned things around so much. We believe it is our job to attend church once or twice a week, listening to the pastor, or the teacher, or the evangelist. Sometimes we hear a prophet, or an apostle. We see them doing the work, and we pat them on the back. “That was a good word, pastor.” Then we put our tithe check in the plate and head out the door. Our eyes must be opened to see that continued instruction in using the John Deere 900D Draper will never yield any crop. We must climb in and start harvesting!

Saints, we need to walk worthy of our calling! Do not think that your calling is “go to church once a week and don’t fall asleep.” That’s not a calling. Do not fall into the trap of believing your pastor is the only one that should have a vision, the only one that should be seeking God daily. God has an amazing plan for each of us, and it’s laid out in Eph 4:13-16.

And if you are currently called to one of those five ministries, then God bless you! Do not get discouraged! Keep on equipping the saints. The work you are doing is incredibly important. If constantly holding the plumb line to the stones seems tedious, ask for another portion of the grace of God. And realize that God rejoices to see the plumb line in your hand! (Zech 4:9,10)

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Global Bridegroom Fast

First Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday of each month, first Monday through Sunday in December. Until Jesus comes back.

Can the friends of the bridegroom mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? But the days will come when the bridegroom will be taken away from them … then they will fast.

I’m going to post a permanent page for these specific items we’re praying for:

  • Fullness of the Holy Spirit and Unity Throughout the Church (John 14:12 and John 17:2-23)
    Spiritual breakthroughs in the worldwide Church with unprecedented unity, purity and power
  • The Great Harvest (Matthew 24:14)
    Over one billion souls converted by the power of God
  • Youth Revival Movement (Malachi 4:6)
    Worldwide revival especially among the poor of the earth
  • Revival to Israel (Romans 9-11)
    Fulfillment of all the prophetic promises to national Israel
  • Houses of Prayer (Isaiah 62:6-7)
    The release of “grace for fasting” with worship and prayer to establish 24/7 houses of prayer in the cities of the earth, including Israel
  • Wealth of the Nations (Haggai 2:7-9)
    Release of finances for the Great Harvest, the prayer movement and the poor
  • The Wall of Fire (Zechariah 2:5)
    Divine protection of all that is birthed through prayer

From IHOP. Check out the GBF Webcast also.

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